If you are moving away from Windows and its irritations, you need to make sure that you move to something less irritating.
If the "reliability, lack of control and possibly security/privacy issues" of Windows are driving you away, there are a number of alternatives.
If however one of the irritants is the "Microsoft knows best and you will conform" attitude, Apple probably is not going to be much of an improvement if any (although they can be pretty).
The other major alternative is Linux which will run on the same hardware as Windows machines. It is a "solid" operating system with good security - that is why so many webservers run on Linux. It also respects your privacy.
For some the huge level of control/choice on offer can be frightening. If that is a problem select say
"Linux Mint Mate" and don't worry about all the other possibilities.
If worried about installing it, find a "local small" computer shop (
which can show you Linux installs that they have done) and ask them to do the install. Depending on the shop it should not cost more than £50-£100 in labour (and the software is free). If offered the option of "dual boot" - where on start up you get a small text menu asking if you want to boot into Linux or Windows (or something else!), take it. (If your data disk is formatted for Windows - both Windows and Linux programs will be able to physically read the data.)
FH then runs on WINE - a sort of Windows Emulator (WINE =
Wine
Is
Not an
Emulator!). You can ask for WINE (which is free) to be put on it as part of the install.
Wine makes a bit of your Linux disk behave as if it is "C:\". RIght-clicking on the FH download sitting on say C:\downloads\ and Open it with Wine Windows Program Loader gets you going.
Software: Most major applications have very good offers
Browsers (like Firefox) - free and well supported
Email (like Thunderbird) - free and well supported
Office (like LibreOffice) - free and well supported
Music Player (like Strawberry) - free and well supported
All the above run on Windows as well as Linux so can be tried before changing
It was the old FUD (Fear Uncertainty and Doubt) that held me back from making the change - until my old Windows 7 machine died and I just could not face Windows 10. I don't regret it 2+ years on.
Perhaps one of the Linux user groups needs to attend a Genealogy Exhibition with some sample setups?